Want to stand out? Stop banging on about what you do

What's your story?

This post first appeared in the Distinctive Dispatch on 4 September, which we publish on Substack. You can sign up for future editions here or on the box to the right of this post.

Stop talking about what you do

Who are we? What do we stand for? Why does it matter?

If you asked people working for the same organisation these questions, it’s quite likely that they’ll give different answers.

Maybe they’ll talk about what they do, because this sits within their scope of reference. “We build houses” is technically accurate.

But how is that descriptor any different from the thousands of other companies in the UK that do the same thing?

“We deliver training,” is also fine as far as it goes.

But why should anyone care that you provide the same solution – because it’s always a ‘solution’ – as every other training provider?

There is a problem with talking about what you do and stopping there. It neglects the story that makes you who you are.

Set against a growing sense that everthing sounds the same, I can’t recall a time when your story has mattered more.

Organisations can bring people along on the journey by clearly outlining the place they started from, the things they’d like to achieve and where they’d like to end up.

When your story works, it builds connections and earns trust. That’s how sustainable growth happens.

Don’t take my word for it though: look at how businesses are rehiring humans to help their stories stand out from the sea of slop lapping at our ankles.

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The media says there are questions to answer about Jason Arday. I have some for them

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On Friday afternoon as former Cambridge professor Jason Arday lay dead, The Times published another article mocking him.

Screenshot of the Times, which says: Jason Arday may want to get himeslef a nice pair of orange trousers.
Screenshot of the headline from this story https://www.thetimes.com/comment/columnists/article/jason-arday-orange-trousers-celebrity-michael-portillo-j0b03cpjq – taken from archived page.

Soon after, as news of his death broke, the article (published here) disappeared. The print edition (below) had a different headline and no mention of Jason Arday by the time it hit the newsstands.

Screenshot of Times print coverage of same story from Saturday August 15
Screenshot of Times print coverage of same story from Saturday August 15

Given the relentless news coverage before his death, removing and amending this piece without comment or explanation speaks volumes.

Whether those involved admit any fault, this action shows how some stepped back from the furore they fed. And well they might. There’s a sense that, this time, the pack crossed a line.

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With Starmer finished, we need a proper conversation about what ‘change’ looks like

Keir Starmer at 10 Downing Street

It’s cruel to call it another U-turn. But growing speculation about Sir Keir Starmer’s resignation, days after insisting he wouldn’t walk away from Number 10, feels fitting.

Last week, the Prime Minister pledged to fight any challenger to his role. Steadfast, if weary, interviews like the one below pointed to progress on growth and NHS waiting lists. This progress doesn’t seem to cut through to the wider public though.

Andy Burnham’s resounding win in the Makerfield by-election changed the tone, gradually then suddenly.

Talk of fighting on is fading, with ministers saying yesterday that the Prime Minister is reflecting on his position. Today, in the face of mounting pressure and fighting back tears, he resigned. *

So here we are, less than two years after storming into office, facing the prospect of a SEVENTH Prime Minister in a decade. His promise to businesses in Bristol to end the psychodrama that defined politics over that period feels like a speck in the distance.

It’s desperately sad that it’s come to this. And it highlights to me a collective madness that passes for public discourse about politics in this country, fuelled largely by bad actors.

‘I wish him well,’ said Donald Trump casually overlooking the fact that net migration into the UK is falling under Labour.

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St Anne’s House shows community regeneration in action  

St Anne's House

Resilient, thriving, connected. People readily use phrases like these to describe successful communities.

They sound great on paper – and God knows I’ve used them myself enough over the years when writing about places. But words without people to make them real are just slogans.

After five years of hard work, I’m seeing something very special happening in Brislington that’s connecting positive intent with people’s lives.

Led by Jack Gibbon, the charity Bricks is moving forward with quiet determination to transform a 70-year-old former council housing office block at St Anne’s House into a space for hundreds of creatives, artists and community groups.

Its open house event this weekend attracted more than 1,000 people across three days. I went on Friday to the launch and on Sunday with my daughter for lunch and look around the exhibitions. It was fantastic to see the place busy, with so much happening throughout the building.

It’s fair to say that St Anne’s House was on its uppers before Bricks took on a lease from Bristol City Council to run the building as a community space.

I remember the first time I visited before becoming a Bricks trustee about two years ago. Its vastness, the single glazed metal-framed windows across three floors and the range and scale of activity happening there struck me. I was aware of Bricks’ public art installations at new developments across Bristol and thought they were the perfect custodian for a project like St Anne’s House. And I was hooked on the concept from that first meeting.  

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Business casual: two words to cause pre-awards jitters

Me with three colleagues at the PRCA awards

Those close to me know I’m a worrier, who likes to think situations through before stepping into them.

It’s superficial to some, but wearing the right outfit helps me prepare. I was raised by fashion retailers; it’s just part my make up.

Before lockdown, this felt MUCH easier: suits, shirts and ties for work and something casual at weekends.

None of this was ever set in stone, but at least it had some clarity. Those blurred lines got even fuzzier last week.

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Four years on, bank holiday pressure turns to perspective

Family together at home on May bank holiday

The late May bank holiday presents a welcome chance to draw breath for my family and I after a hectic start to 2026 for all of us.

Fresh from passing her driving test, my daughter Penny prepares to head to York to study archaeology in September. Having just returned from a month in New Zealand, she’s working hard, saving, and planning to travel again this summer. 

Her brother Henry, meanwhile, is a third of the way through the GCSE grind. His school in Wells texts us every day to advise us of an ‘unauthorised’ absence. I can confirm here (and have done to them) that he’s revising for the next exam. Anyone who’s had children at this life stage knows it’s a joyless slog.

My wife is studying for a certificate in systemic psychotherapy at Exeter University, on top of a demanding day job as a family therapist in Somerset.

And I’m working hard on the business as Distinctive approaches the end of our fourth year, reflecting on the progress we’ve made in that short time.

Between all of this and the tedious task of processing dozens of receipts from UKREiiF in Leeds this week, I realise how much has shifted since May 2022.

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